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Today’s Question: How do I make my girlfriend happy?

This is a fun question to answer, It can seem like a challenging task but it is actually quite simple. Here are the things you can do

• You need to listen to her and make her feel heard and understood. Often times a little empathy can make your partner happy. You don’t need to solve her problems but you do need to listen to them and understand them. You can try asking her about her day, her thoughts, and her feelings. Remember to give her your full attention while she speaks.

• Compliments go a long way, you need to make her feel special and beautiful. Telling her about things, you admire about her as well as things that remind her of how much you love her is always a great idea.

• Remember that you don’t need big grand gestures rather try doing small thoughtful gestures like bringing her favorite snack, giving her a back rub, or sending her a sweet text during the day. These little things surely add up.

• Another thing you can do that most guys don’t do is lend a hand with chores. Chores are an equal responsibility and helping her out will put her in a good mood.

• Don’t be shy, you need to learn to be affectionate through hugs, cuddles, hand-holding, and saying "I love you." This will create a sense of familiarity and comfort between you and your partner.

• Lastly, it would be best if you respected her boundaries and needs for personal space when required.

Follow these tips and remember to be kind to your partner. Hope this helps, I appreciate the effort you guys are trying to take to make your partners happy.

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